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Remembering Rob
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Rob Derksema
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Dec 30, 2004 14:27 PST
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Hello everyone. Here we are almost ending a year & beginning a new one.
Here I have compiled a few notes & memories of Rob, my dear hubby who
died on Dec. 30th. last year. Enjoy the memories & have a wonderful New
Year 2005! Love to all, Patsy & Kay
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Ahh Rob! How could anyone forget him? I remember when I sent some
Indonesian Dutch recipes and also mentioned Appel Stroop which is a
delicious apple paste spread I could practically eat with a spoon and
I'm not even Dutch. He emailed me back and it sounded as if he was
really drooling at the very mention of this wonderful Dutch Appel
spread. He was so funny. Reminds me I have to get another tub of that
Stroop as the ants got to the last morsel and I had to chuck it out. He
had wonderful recipes and was so funny when he posted them. I still
have heaps on my other computer. Some on this one too. He wrote in a
Dutch accent. Such a personality! God bless and thanks Rob for the
memories. Jenny Scott
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Hi Patsy,
Hope you have a wonderful holiday season. I know it will be hard without
Rob. My father passed away when he was 52 from a brain aneurysm twenty
years ago and it is still painful and more so around the holidays. You
are in my prayers.
Deb
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Patsy,
I just wanted to say hello. I'm a new subscriber and I didn't know
anything about Rob at all. I was reading the tribute to him this evening
and he sounded really wonderful. You must feel so blessed to have known
him. It made me really grateful for what I have. My husband is a really
good man. A real jewel. I am very blessed by God to have him. He's so
sweet and gentle. From what I've read about your Rob you had a real
treasure, like mine.
I'm sorry that he's no longer with you. I can't imagine loosing mine. I
thank God for all the prayers and support you recieved, and I pray that
will continue and that God will continue to strengthen you. God Bless
You and Keep You!
Barbara McLeod
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Remembering Rob.
How he said he loved helping people and cooking.His stories of his time
in the service.His contest,which I won once.His kindness toward complete
strangers and being our friend,even though we never met.How much he
enjoyed his life and family.Never letting on about his pain.He could be
serious,funny and helpful all at the same time.He seemed to give more to
people ,then hisself.I was honored and proud to know him and call him my
friend. I also remember his story of how you 2 met.How proud he was of
his family.I remember his stories about his time in the service and how
some made me cry,while others made me laugh.His story about his first
wife.He just seemed so fun loving,caring and an joy to know.Now all the
other Angels are getting to know him in Heaven. He is smiling down on
ALL of us.God has the most amazing Angel now.
Your Friend
Christine V.
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Remembering Rob
Hi Patsy,
I hope this finds you in good health and in good spirits. I have been
recieving your letter everyday now for at least 3 years or close to that
anyways.And what I remember was that he seemed to be such a caring, good
hearted person. And this I know for sure by reading your news letter is
that he loved you so very much.You could hear it in his words that he
wrote.Just a all around good guy.And that today is so hard to find in
someone.I myself have been married now for 32 years,we have 3 kids and 4
grandbabies and 1 more on the way, I do not know how or what I would do
if I was to ever lose the love of my life,like you did.I have known my
husband since I was 13 and we got married when I was 15,I know that is
too young for sure but we are still together after all these years.My
hubby is my life like Rob was yours and I have to appald you for I know
I could not go on if I was to ever lose mine.Rob was a very special
person and your alls readers could hear that in the words he
wrote.Please take care and I hope you have a Safe and Happy New Year.
A Faithful Reader and I hope a Friend,
Hugs To You and Kay Both,
Drema
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The one most thing I remember about Rob, is his courage and
determination that he had. People with a disability often do not always
have these qualities. His was also with humor. His love of cooking. I
wished often that he could of cooked some of those special dishes for
me! Robs "stories" of his little escapes as he went through life. So
much courage and stamina he had!! How lucky you were to have him, if
only for the short time. Now you have all the precious memories of him.
Rob will never be forgotten!
Love and prayers.
Mary G
Wahpeton, North Dakota
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Grin...I was a member of his newsletter...I am a member of yours and
kay's Grin...I LOVED his jovial sense of humor...when giving a
recipe...he was such a hoot...and I could almost see him there...cooking
the recipe...I miss him tooo...he was a good guy...but now he is out of
pain and in a better place..as is my husband...but we have the wonderful
memories...that will always live with us...that is sooo special You've
come a long way...I understand ...what you've been through...Love ya
Brenda
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Dear Patsy,
I remember Rob’s great stories and recipes. I just loved getting his
newsletter as much as I receive yours. He reminded me as a big teddy
bear. I know you miss him so very much as I miss him too. Rob is looking
down on all of us and when you see a big puffy cloud that’s him running
around and saying I’m pain free. I remember when he was so sick and his
beloved wife was always with him and letting his fans know how he was
doing. Thank you Patsy for keeping us up to date on everything you do. I
just love reading your remembering Rob pages. You can see how much we
all loved him.
Your sister in Christ,
Mary L.
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i didnt know rob that well but what i did know was that he was a funny,
wonderful, generous and caring person, and that he loved you with all
his heart and he loved god above all. hugs carol
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Hi Patsy!
Thinking about you today. I know it has been a year that you lost your
Rob. It was a year ago that day when my daughter Christina left for
Florida. I cried all the way home from the airport. I got home to the
news about Rob. It was not a good day. Christina now has come home.
Things did not work out in Florida. But Rob is still with you. I read
his web site every chance I get. I still feel he is still here. Enjoy
your holidays.
Love to you and Kay!
Also to your Family
Sandy and Christina (Vermont)
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dear patsy .....thank u for ur mail and i am happy for ur wish,,,its a
wish come true,,,patsy i have always wanted beauty tips reg circles
around my eyes as i am awake a lot and lack of sleep and distress of
being far from raj has got me this dark circles so give me a home remedy
as i dont use chemicals...and do tell rob in ur dreams that i miss
him...love premamala
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I know you are coming up on the 1 year anniversary of Rob's going to
Heaven. I hold a special prayer and keep you close in my heart during
this time and always. May God bless you and keep you safe.
Love in Christ,
Betty G
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rob was funny
wania lamb
4 years old
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Thinking of you & your family .....remembering Rob....
Dear Patsy & Family:
You are in all our thoughts and prayers at this time, which is the first
anniversary of Rob's passing away. Please know that you are being sent
lots of love and wishes for peace of mind. I saw this poem today, and it
reminded of the fun spirit and love of life that you and Rob always
bring to mind. May God bless you and keep you in his care.
Virginia C
"The Journey"
Ships are not built for the harbor,
surely in life there is more.
The journey is what brings fulfillment
to a life that is worth living for.
From the heart comes the hope of the present,
from memories dreams from the past.
From the soul comes the spirit of living,
from experience lessons that last.
Look ahead to see where you are going,
look behind to see where you have been.
Look inside to discover your purpose,
then let your life's voyage begin.
Take care as you sail to your future.
Share kindness with people you meet.
Take heart in the oceans you conquer,
till your journey through life is complete.
And when your life's voyage is over,
when your sun starts to set in the sea,
pass on to the next generation
the joy that the journey can be.
--Tom Krause
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the kids love rob. it is fun.. marge v 41 w gore erie pa
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Hi there Patsy,
Sorry this is a little late.
In reflection of Rob Derksema, he has become one of my life time heros.
I
have never met anyone with a sweeter heart than him. He never judged
anyone
on their outward appearances because he had a way of seeing into the
hearts
of people. Before I met Rob, I was promised in a blessing that as I
went
out to share the gospel of Jesus Christ with the world, many noble and
great
people would cross my path. I felt I was destined to meet Kings and
rulers.
When I met Rob, he was the least of what I expected, yet he changed my
life in a way only he could do. He changed my perspecive on loving
people
for who they are. He taught me how to always be optomistic, even in
hard
situations. He showed me how to love a wife unconditionally, and he
taught
me that to change is progression. I have never seen anyone progress in
this
life like Rob. I will never forget the days I laughed with him over
lunch
and the nights I cried with him in the hospital. I feel he has blessed
my
life more than I ever could have blessed his, and to me he is definatly
one
of the most noble and great men I have ever met.
I hope this will work for your letter Patsy. I love you. God bless.
Love Jared
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What I remember about Rob was his funny & antidotic newsletters, about
making his recipes but most of all I remember the love he had for you &
his friends. He challenged every obstacle that crossed his path with
grace and with your loving hands & heart. Sometimes when I would get
depressed, I would remember the pain & difficulties he had & how he
beared them, showing me that you can overcome them.
Toni
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Remembering Rob
This was the time of year he wanted Peace for all around the World.He
would talk about helping those less fortunate and how the old didn't
have to be alone for the holidays.He made the holidays seem so cozy and
warm,no matter where you were.He was an true diamond in the rough.To me
and I'm sure to many others,he is up there with Bob Hope and his stars
who brought alittle joy and comfort to our troops this time of year.So
if we are sad right now,I'm sure he is saying,"Smile and make one of my
special meals!" I'm sure he is one of the Kings or the King among the
Angels leading the Christmas Parade.
Well Merry Christmas Patsy and Kay!
Christine
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Rob seemed like a person who enjoyed life to the fullest even though his
was short and you both have belief in Jesus which is the most important.
Basil
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Mom when the time was right it hit me. Here is what I wrote.
The poem that follows is not mine of course and I've made changes to it.
Remembering my Dad.
I sit on my bedside, contemplating sleep.
As I look at the picture on my night table,
I see an angelic face, with a smile so sweet.
I reach out and touch his soft face and to place a
kiss on his cheek and say good night.
But before I close my eyes as I lay down,
I ask him to please keep watch all around.
Please bless our family and follow them always.
Please bless my mom who misses you so.
Keep her happy, calm, and warm.
Bless us all so we can be like you, and
dwell with Heavenly Father someday .
As I close my eyes and say amen,
I listen real closely for a few moments.
I know you speak to us in mysterious ways,
and I hear you say everything will be ok.
Take care of my mom and always be there,
and raise beautiful children with the utmost care.
Love my husband and all of my friends,
and God will bless us to the very end.
Yes this is how I remember my dad.
He is such a loving , caring man.
He loved everybody, and told them as much.
*darling* was his pet name for everyone
he loved. I will always remember hearing his
strong Dutch voice say this one word, preceeded by,
* I love you darling *
Dad will always be remebered and loved, and this
year he's spending Christmas with God watching
over us above.
Love Always , Kay and Family.XOXOXO
I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars
reflecting off the snow.
The sight is so spectacular,
please wipe away those tears,
For I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choirs up here.
I have no words to tell you
of the joy their voices bring
For it is beyond description
to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your hearts
for I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I can't tell you of the splendor
or the peace here in this place
Can you just imagine Christmas
with our Savior face to face?
I'll ask Him to lift your spirits
as I tell Him of your love
and then pray for one another
as you pray to God above.
Please let your hearts be joyful
and let your spirits sing
for I am spending Christmas in Heaven
walking with the King.
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Hi everyone,
I have to agree with Kay, I know beyond the shadow of a doubt, that
Rob is spending Christmas in Heaven, walking with the King.
It's not hard to remember Rob, there are little pieces of him
everywhere...all around my heart & dancing through my mind.
Christmas, as it approached, was very hard for me. I remembered all the
fun Rob & I had last year. We made Christmas stockings for all our
elderly neighbours & delivered them to their door late Christmas Eve. It
was so fun to see their surprise as it was a long time since they had
gotten a Christmas stocking. Rob was particularly delighted with their
response, because he had never done this sort of thing in the
Netherlands.
I remember surprising Rob by having the tree decorated as he returned
home from a party that I chose not to attend. I walked him there &
returned home & rushed to get the little tree decorated with red lights
& white ornaments. Our friend, Sharon, walked home with him & when he
saw the tree, tears trickled down his cheeks as he said: dahling (not a
spelling error:), it's the most beautiful tree I've ever seen. As God
would have it, it was his last Christmas tree here on earth.
We were home alone for Christmas, because there was a snowstorm & we
chose to be home in the cozy warmth of our apartment & we made a
beautiful dinner together...always together. That is how we did
everything. Our dinner was wonderful & we called many friends & family &
had a most enjoyable day. We took dinner to all the seniors who had no
one to cater to them. Your meals are like manna, when eaten & prepared
in love. We were the "kids" to these elderly folks & we enjoyed doing
whatever we could to help them.
5 days after Christmas, Rob went Home to our Father. He truly is, the
child of a King now. I miss him so much. It's hard to understand why God
takes our happiness sometimes. I know He had work for Rob & also, that
Rob was ready to move into a Kingdom, as he was often too good, to be
living here on earth. Those of you who know me well, know that I don't
say that because he's gone now, but, that I saw him that way when he
lived & it was a pleasure to be in his life. many of you were good
friends through email & even phone sometimes. He loved you all, as I do.
We planned a lot of news together & enjoyed helping each other with our
individual ezines & particularly if one of us was not feeling good...we
just slipped in & took over each others work. He was a genuinely caring
& loving individual, & a very intelligent man.
Can you tell I miss him? I know you miss him too & his wonderful sense
of humour. I love to be with people who can make me laugh & whom I can
encourage to laugh, smile, be happy, as well.
I want to thank you all for the help you were & are to Rob & me. You
prayed so much when he was so sick in Holland & not expected to live for
weeks. You prayed as the ambulance pulled away with him last year & I
quickly got a note to you, to see if we could encourage God to let him
live. You prayed for me & gave me strength & sent me notes, ecards,
cards in the mail, phone calls, trinkets, angels, etc. etc. etc.
You helped me so much & a lot of your things are on Remembering Rob
pages that I put together. For those of you greiving, you will surely
find help through the strength you all sent to me & my family.
I send you my love & prayers & thank you so much for Remembering Rob
with me. You will be remembered throughout all the Eternities. May God
richly bless you till the day you go Home to Him & we all can meet
together there as friends & family.
Patsy & Kay & family
For those of you who are new, Rob was my sweet hubby...there are 10
pages of notes, links, & memories, & the last page is kinda fun
someways. There's a wedding picture on each one. I look bigger than I am
but also have lost much weight since he died. Sadness has a way of doing
that. We women always have to mention thses things:)
I have had many happy times too this year & have often laughed at some
of the fun we had. Enjoy our pages. I may add more someday.
Remembering Rob
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