Toilet Training by Mistress Anonymous
Feb 09, 2008 00:29 PST
We are receiving mails from ladies and mistresses worldwide who got into
toilet domination getting inspired by our website and mailing list. We
have decided to post those experiences on this mailing list.
Forst in the series is the Toilet Training Method posted by one of the
Mistresses - we call her Mistress Anonymous as she requested to withheld
her name. So Read it .......
Toilet Training by Mistress Anonymous
1st and most obvious is taste. It will take practice for your slave to
adequately deal with the taste of human excrement without gagging or
Your colon can serve your slave much more than his mouth can
comfortably hold. In order for things to remain sanitary, you're slave
will need to be able to swallow faster than it comes out of you. This
is more difficult than it sounds. In fact, in order for this to even
be possible, your slave will need to get used to swallowing your
excrement without chewing. Depending on the consistency of your stool,
your slave may need to soften it slightly with his tongue, but he will
need to do this incredibly fast.
Your bladder can hold FAR more than your slave's mouth can hold as
well. Also, if you use your slave for number 2, you should never have
him touch his lips to your vaginal area because of risk of infection.
For sanitation, be sure to always have your slave rinse his mouth out
well and use mouth wash to kill bacteria before the final cleaning.
The following is a guide that a mistress could follow roughly for
training a full-time toilet slave. If you are only interested in
training your husband/boy friend/whatever to be used on occasion in
this way, you may follow this guide loosely:
Training a full-time toilet slave:
First, let me dispel your thoughts about how horrible this would be to
do to someone. There are thousands of men out there who fantasize
almost exclusively about servicing a woman in this way. To take
someone in and train them to become what they desire to be is not
horrible--you are allowing a man to fulfill his deepest and darkest
fantasy. Don't believe me? Just do a Google search for "toilet slave"
and count how many personal adds you run across from guys wishing to
Alright, so there are guys out there who want to become a toilet, but
why would I want to use a man as a toilet? The most common knee-jurk
reaction of most women reading about the idea of keeping a full-time
toilet slave is usually along the lines of "That's preposterous. Why
would anyone want that???" My advice to those women that ask this
question is to relax and give the idea some time to sink in. The first
time I heard of a man wanting to become a full-time toilet, I thought
the idea was preposterous too. Eventually, once I got over my initial
discusted reaction, I slowly began to realize beauty in the idea.
Paradoxically, the beauty is in the extreme obsurdedy of it. There is
such a Marquis de Sade erotic appeal to reducing a man to such a
pathetic device. In fact, there is no fate which is more pathetic than
this. To take away all of a mans dignity by transforming him into my
full-time personal toilet... is unlike anything I've ever experienced.
In the world of BDSM, a toilet represents maximum contrast between
inferiority and superiority--just imagine being able to experience
this ultimate realization of superiority every day.
Training an effective toilet slave is unfortunately quite a challenge.
Even though there are many men out there who fantasize about becoming
a woman's toilet, few turn out to become effective at it. Few can
tolerate the taste and even fewer can ingest quickly enough not to
make a horable mess and smell. Training a man to become your toilet is
almost always more of an undertaking than initially realized.
Over the years, I've come up with a regime that has proved extremely
effective. If followed on a slave, I promise wonderful results. Slave
is a keyword here. This guide is to creating a full-time toilet slave
with no other purpose in life other than serving you during your most
personal moments. A true slave is a wonderful and difficult thing to
find these days. Many who claim to be them do not truly know what they
are claiming to be. This guide assumes that you already are lucky
enough to have a slave and intend to train him for this role. If you
want to train your husband or some other man who is not a slave to
become your toilet on a part-time basis, this guide can be followed
Before you begin, it's very important to make sure you don't allow
your slave to masturbate for at least a month. The most effective way
to do this is through chastity. I've used several variations from
http://www.chastitytube.com.../ in the past-these are somewhat pricey,
but extremely well built. Most of these require a chastity piercing:
something every slave should have. I recommend a PA. A man that has
been denied release for over a month will be easier to mold into a
role as your toilet.
Second, it's important that your slave be broken in. I assume since
this is a "slave" you've already taken care of this, but for those of
you who don't know what I'm talking about, let me spell it out a
little clearer. A broken slave is terrified of you. You should be able
to smell his fear. Keep in mind that more often than not it is the
anticipation of pain that breaks a slave more than the pain itself, so
take your time. Make sure he knows what is coming well in advance.
When you are not in the room, I recommend playing a looped mp3 of your
voice speaking to him in a deragatory way. Keep it loud enough so he
cannot sleep at night. You get the idea... Use whatever you need to
break him. Detailing the possibilities and techniques for breaking a
slave down psychologically is beyond the scope of this document. I
don't have to describe to you how to tell if your slave is broken.
Believe me... you will know when it happens.
Third, make sure you have a toilet suitable for your slave before you
begin. Most mistresses prefer siting in a chair designed for a toilet
slave rather than squatting directly on his face. While squatting
certainly works, it is much less comfortable than a chair especially
if you like to take your time. If you'd rather not buy your own, why
not have your slave make you one before you commit him to his fate? It
should be comfortable enough to sit on for long periods of time. Even
if your slave lacks carpentry skills, a wooden box, couple of holes
and a toilet seat on top isn't rocket science. If you want your slave
to prepare you a toilet chair, there are many possibilities... I used
the following to create a very solid toilet. The total cost was about
16x16 solid wood planters box
wood glue (to fill cracks)
Metal & wood enamel (for waterproofing)
Sand paper (grain depends on wood type of planter box)
Screws and screwdriver
1 small coping saw for cutting out the neck
1 larger crosscut or rip saw for cutting the planter's box in half
A couple of boards to use as the lid
The 16x16 planter's box is the only item that may be difficult to find
at any local hardware store. You should be able to find one online
(check eBay). Keep in mind that if your goal is to reduce stench via
and air tight seal between your slave's mouth and your butt, the hight
of the box will need to be reduced accordingly. If contact with your
slave's face is undesirable, you may consider looking into rubber open
mouth gags available at most websites that sell bondage supplies.
One last thing you should keep in mind before training your slave: Try
to resist the urg to laugh while training your slave. While the
temporary flush of emberrismant that a laugh can bring is lovely to
watch, long-term it is very counterproductive. You should generally
avoid showing your slave any emotion accept anger when he disobays and
perhaps an occasioinal smile when he performs his function
exceptionaly well. Your slave should never think of himself or the
acts he is doing as ammusing--your goal is for him to get to the point
of feeling completely normal while performing them. Laugh as much as
you want when you leave the room, but be sure to bite your lip when he
I.Phase One: 1 month
The first phase is mostly psychological. It prepares you and your
slave mentally for the two stages coming up. Honestly, the most
important part of this phase is that you feel comfortable being
watched by your slave. If you are sure that you already do, you may
shorten this step to a couple of weeks, but I don't recommend skipping
On day one, secure your slave in chastity in the bathroom. Give him a
bucket to relieve himself. Restrain his hands and legs as much as
possible. Do not allow him to groom, wash himself, or brush his teeth.
Tell him what you intend to turn him into. Tell him that soon, this
will be his only purpose in life. Use graphic words that will stick in
his mind when you describe what you intend to do to him and how he
You will Ask him to nod his head to acknowledge that he heard you, but
under no circumstances allow him to speak. This will be the last thing
you say to him during this phase. Be sure not to speak to him at all
after this. His fate should be the last thing he hears from your
mouth. Don't give him anything else to think about.
The only decoration in the room should be a list of rules. Something
like the following will do:
[beginning of poster]
"My sole purpose for existing on this planet is to service my mistress
as her toilet and bathroom aid. I will respect and worship her waiste
and presence as devine. I am blessed to be given the honor of this
service and am eternally grateful to her for allowing me to take on
this responsibility. Without which, I would be without purpose and
I am to never speak.
I am to never cry.
I am to never laugh.
I am to never make eye contact.
I am to always remain quiet.
I am to always keep the bathroom clean.
[end of poster]
Keep the lights off while you are not in the room. Before using the
bathroom, wait a couple of minutes for his eyes to adjust before you
go. You want to be sure that he sees you in the process: If he's not
watching, force him to look without words. As soon as you are done,
turn off the lights. The only thing he should see this month is you
going to the bathroom, all he should hear is what he will soon be
receiving splashing into the water of the toilet.
You must shower, brush your teeth, hair, etc in another bathroom. Be
sure to NEVER allow your slave to talk. He will never be allowed to do
so again unless directly asked a question-which you should avoid
doing. Punish him severely for speaking without being asked a direct
By the end of this phase, you should have no problem doing your
business while your slave is watching. You should continue this
training until you feel completely comfortable, no matter how long
For food, one full can of dog food a day will condition his stomach
for what's coming. I recommend Alpo brand: Hearty Loaf Beef, Bacon &
Cheese. One full can a day will suffice. Be sure he finishes it. Give
him a daily supply of fresh veggies. Some broccoli, carrots, etc...
whatever is cheap. Make no effort to prepare them--serve them to him
Keep him dehidrated. Dehidration will keep him in a confused/delerious
state of mind, which is good during this phase. He should receive only
a couple cups of water per day. If he needs more, he will need to
drink his own urine.
Once a day, force your slave to take a shot of apple cyder vinegar.
Make him hold in his mouth for 10 minutes before swallowing. If he
gags, throws up, or shows any discontent, make him do it again (up to
4 times-at which point beat him instead).
II. Part Two: 1-3 Weeks
After a month, your slave should be ripe enough to begin his second
phase of training. This month will get him used to being in close
contact with your gifts. The smell and taste will take time to get
used to, but the vinegar and dog food should have conditioned his
stomach and gag-reflex suppression abilities enough to keep it down.
This is a particularly difficult month for the trainer because there
is no avoiding an awful stench. If necessary, use something to plug
your nose while implementing this phase of training.
Begin by taking the chastity device off your slave. Keep his hands
restrained behind his back so it is impossible to masturbate. Also
stop giving your slave doses of apple cider vinegar and reduce his dog
food intake to a quarter can per day. Reduce his veggie intake
proportionately as well. This is to ensure that he will be
uncomfortably hungry unless he decides to eat what you give him.
You will want to keep your slave in the bath tub for the entire week.
Plug the drain so that no water can escape and do not allow him to
leave the tub to use the toilet-Force him to wear an adult diaper,
which will overflow by the week's end-this is OK and intentional. Not
only will he be in regular contact with your excrement throughout the
week, he will have to soak in his own. For the next couple of weeks,
instead of using the toilet, use the tub whenever you need to take a
shit/piss. I recommend not going on top of him, but in easy reach-this
will allow him to approach it at his own pace.
Once you finish, force him to lean over and shove his nose and face
into your excrement. Ask him to pick some of it up with his mouth and
keep it in for several minutes and swallow some. If it doesn't gross
you out, I recommend getting some latex gloves, and using them to
smear it thoroughly over his face--including his mouth. It's a good
idea (but not critical) that he has an erection during this process.
Monitor him and if he doesn't have a hard on, you may help it along
with some gentle friction using a toilet brush or plunger (DON'T use
your hands). Make sure to NOT allow him release. It is in this way
that your slave begins his sexual-fantasy reprogramming. It is your
eventual and inevitable goal to get your slave to the point of only
being able to achieve an erection while in the presence of feces.
Another important part of this phase is that your slave stay ungroomed
and unwashed. During this period, he should be under constant
influence of the smell, taste, and feel. Make sure to get it deep into
his hair--if your slave has a beard and mustash, be sure to get plenty
into it as well. He will have his hands restrained behind his back and
will be unable to wipe it out. Avoid actually getting shit up his nose
because this will restrict his ability to smell.
Be sure to turn off the lights when you are finished. If you ever
catch your slave in the process of, or find evidence that he released
his load, be sure to punish him so severely that he will never think
of doing so again. Denial is important because it keeps his mind
focused and in a state that makes the process much easier.
Each time you urinate, have him drink it (do not make contact with his
mouth since his mouth has been in contact with excrement and not
cleaned, it is not safe). If you can't comfortably do so when your
slave is in the tub, urinate into a water bottle and squeeze it into
his mouth. Force him to drink it all. If he spills any (which he will
surely do), whip him moderately. I recommend using something you can
afford to get rid of after the week (such as a flexible stick or a
wire close hanger), since your slave is not allowed to clean himself.
Also, reduce his water intake to only 2 cups a day so he is always
thirsty when he receives your urine.
Always use paper when you are done during this phase. You can dispose
of it in the toilet, or throw it in the tub with your slave--up to
It's important that you talk to your slave only when absolutely
necessary. When you do, be sure to call him what he is.
Lastly, here's an important piece of advice to use on a beginning
toilet slave. If he is having trouble swallowing either your urin or
excrement, you may help him by shoving shit deep into his nose. Use
your latex gloves and cram enough so that he will not be able to
breath out of it. This will restrict his ability to taste what you are
giving him and will make things MUCH easier for him. If you want,
don't allow him to blow it out and let it dry up deep inside his
nose--this will take weeks to get out completely and somewhat
ammusing/fun to do.
III. The 3d phase: 3 months to a year
By now, your slave should be almost ready. During this phase you will
train him to eat your shit very quickly--quickly enough that he should
be able to swallow what you give him faster than you give it to him.
Your slave will need to get used to swallowing your shit without
chewing it in order for this to be possible--something that takes all
toilet slaves some time to perfect. Some use their tongues to soften
it slightly before swallowing. The amount of time required by slaves
to perfect this important technique varies wildly from slave to slave.
In some extreme cases, it can take months before a slave can ingest a
good size stool very quickly consistently (the worst case I've
personally run across was 6 months, but have heard of cases taking up
to a year). Eventually after enough beatings and practice, your slave
will get it. Don't give up on him!
Hygiene will be another important part of this final stage. Begin the
week by forcing your slave to dispose of his diaper, take a shower,
brush his teeth, floss, and use mouth wash. You should force him to
clean his teeth and mouth after every use. He will also be required to
groom himself to your specifications: hair length, hair style,
beard/mustache, calone, deodorant, nails, etc. Have him clean and lock
himself into chastity once again.
For this phase, you should go number 2 directly into his mouth. Have
him lie on his back in the tub with his feet in the air. Sit over the
side of the tub, so your butt is roughly 4 inches from his mouth and
legs spread with your knees roughly 12 inches apart (sit on a towel or
pillow for comfort). Have him hold a bowl in one hand to collect any
urine that spills during the process. This will take some
coordination. The goal here for the slave is to keep up with you and
not spill anything.
All toilet slaves find this phase the most difficult of the 4 phases.
Be sure that you have given you slave stools of a variety of different
consistencies. Experiment with all sorts of different foods. If you
have to, use stool softeners-this is not recommended though for more
than a couple times a month. Softer stools tend to have a more intense
flavor and smell and may cause your slave to throw up or gag the first
few experiences; however, softer stools are much easier to swallow
quickly. If your slave continues to struggle for more than a couple of
months, you may want to try using anti emetics to suppress his
gag-reflex. I recommend not allow your slave the pleasure of cleaning
you until he has earned the right by being able to ingest quickly
Occasionally, if your slave has done a particularly good job, allow
him to remove his chastity and masturbate immediately after ingesting.
Don't ever allow him to do this more than once a month. Be sure to
always keep your slave in chastity besides these very brief
encounters. He will remain in chastity for the duration of his service
to you as a toilet slave.
Given the absence of nightly erections your slave's penis will begin
to perminantly and continuously reduce in size (length and girth).
Eventually, it will be too small to ever please a woman, which is an
important physical goal. To help facilitate this transformation, make
sure to use a chastity device that gives absolutely no room to grow in
width or length.
III. Phase 3 Part 2: Cleaning (1 day to a week)
Now for the fun part. For most mistresses, this part of the experience
is why they train a toilet slave to begin with... There is nothing
like the sensation of having your ass cleaned by a man's tongue. Your
slave should thoroughly clean his mouth before this process. I always
make my slave wash his mouth 5 times with water and 30 seconds with
mouth wash before this step-be sure that your slave does this very
quickly-He shouldn't take longer than a minute to prepare his mouth
for your ass. Once your slave's mouth is clean, instruct him not to
let his tongue wander far from your hole. It's extremely important
that his tongue stay far away from your vaginal region to avoid
infections. Alright, here's how I like to have my slave do it:
Have your slave hold a glass of water in his hand and cup his lips
around your hole and begin by moving his tongue up and down to clean
the surface. His tongue should feel cool with fresh water from
rinsing. Then his tongue should enter your hole approximately two
inches and make small circular movements. His tongue should stay in
for about 2 seconds, then retract and enter again. This should happen
about 3 times. He is to then wash his mouth out with cool water and
repeat the process until he is sure it's perfectly clean. Once squeaky
clean, your slave will gently dab you dry with a clean towel.
By the end of phase 3, you should notice that your slave is beginning
to enjoy himself more than previous phases. He will start to crave
these inimate moments with his mistress and anxiously wait for them
throughout the day.
IV. Phase 4: The final stage
Ah, the final stage. Your slave is finely ready. Test out your slave
to see how well he performs. The next time you go number 2, have your
slave close his lips around your ass hole and not let any air slip by
while ingesting your gift. This is the moment that you've worked so
hard to attain. Relax and enjoy it.
Once tested successfully several times, it's time to start using your
slave outside of the tub. Most western cultured women prefer the
comfort of a toilet designed for a toilet slave (see notes about this
above), but most Asian mistresses I know, prefer to squat directly
above or on top of their slaves head. Experiment and decide what works
best for you.
Lastly: Your slave is an investment of your valuable time. Like any
valuable possession, you want him to last a long time. Therefore,
continued maintenance of your slave is important.
Generally, if you and your toilet slave are healthy, the daily
ingestion of your stools should not lead to any serious health
problems as long as you supplement it appropriately. It is certainly
not necessary or encouraged to prepare anything fancy for your slave.
Make sure that he receives plenty of fiber to aid in his processing of
abnormally high amounts of cellulose. Broccoli, whole grain breads,
dried fruits, carrots, cabbage, etc are all great examples. A nightly
vitamin is also a good idea.
Once every 6 months, have your slave remove and clean his chastity
device and penis. You will also need to train him to milk himself once
a week or so in order to keep his prostate healthy. A cheap curved
anal toy can be used for this (found at any sex shot). Eventually,
after being locked in chastity for over a year, you should see a
noticable decrece in size of his erection. Take a picture of it and
hang it on the wall next to another picture of a real man's erect
penis as a constant reminder that he is of no other use to a woman.
Exercise is also important. As much as I’d love to just keep my
slave bound indefinitely to my toilet, this is unfortunately not a
realistic long-term plan. Regular movement and exercise is important
to prevent bed sores, atrophy, and to keep his muscles flexible. A
daily routine of sit-ups, push-ups, and running in place will keep him
in reasonable shape to continue his function.
Enjoy. I hope this guide serves you well in your toilet-slave
training. Be sure whomever you begin this training with is awair and
consenting of his fate. There are plenty of people out there to
choose from... believe me.
Mistress Anonymous (Name withheld on requeast !)
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